Age does have its advantages. Without going in to detail over the incident, all I can say is some men still have the mind set that women are helpless, stupid and need to be guided like a small child.
Being older I have learned to 'play the game' with men like that. You know 'the game' where you have to act helpless and stupid to get what you need done. Although I have to say it makes me cringe when I have to. I do know how to manipulate it so the outcome is what I wanted in the first place. But getting there is aggravating.
For being someone who is far from helpless, playing the 'helpless role' has come from age and gritted teeth. Like the old saying, "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar". When I was younger something like that would have set me off and a face to face argument would have ensued. Getting older hasn't been too bad. I've learned to live with the few small chin hairs that I notice ( and pluck!). The grey hair doesn't bother me much these days. There are more creaks in the joints than there ever used to be. And as previously talked about, the old 'cowboy' hands along with the tan leathery face.The gist of this post is with age we learn how to deal with certain, one tracked mind, stereotypical individuals. Or some times we just don't have to and put that certain person in their rightful place! Which is behind you! Until next time........................
This morning after taking care of the 'herd' and some morning chores it was time to tackle the plumbing situation. The more I thought about it, the more I knew I could fix the situation.
So, after finding the plumbing snake, right sized wrench, hooking up the hose, I was prepared to tackle the job. And tackle it I did! I have watched enough how the proffesionals did the job so, remembering how they did it, the job got done. Okay, maybe it took longer. And maybe it wasn't as proffesional. But, the drains are cleared and working normally once again. Although I have to admit it is something I would prefer not doing again! Today I noticed that my hands look like cowboy hands. You know the ones, old and weatherbeaten. I suppose the days of youthful looking skin is long gone and I just now noticed. Ha HaUntil next time......................